Afternoon Tea - Recommended Dress Code

In the noble tradition of Britain’s grand country houses, Afternoon Tea at Smithmore Castle is a ceremonious affair. Guests are kindly asked to attire themselves with grace, refinement, and an appreciation for the elegance of the age.

 

FOR LADIES

Silhouettes & Dresses

• Tea-length dresses, elegant day gowns, or refined skirt ensembles in classic fabrics (silk, muslin, fine wool, brocade).

• Hemlines should fall at the knee or below; sweeping midi or modest Victorian-inspired silhouettes are warmly encouraged.

• Gentle waistlines, structured bodices, and graceful sleeves are most becoming.

Colours & Patterns

• Soft pastels, muted florals, ivory, dove grey, sapphire, burgundy, or any palette befitting a gentle afternoon.

• Avoid excessively bright neon tones or modern athletic fabrics.

Hats & Millinery

• Fascinators, decorative headpieces, tasteful hats, or simple combs are delightfully appropriate.

• Elaborate fascinators may be worn, provided they do not obstruct another guest’s view.

Footwear

• Court shoes, heeled slippers, refined flats, or vintage-style boots.

• No trainers, flip-flops, or casual sandals.

Accessories & Presentation

• Gloves (short or wrist-length), delicate jewellery, and petite handbags are all welcome.

• Hair should be neatly styled or elegantly pinned.

• Perfume should be subtle, never overpowering.

FOR GENTLEMEN

Suits & Jackets

• Tailored suit, morning coat, or smart blazer with trousers.

• Colours such as charcoal, navy, camel, or fine checks are entirely suitable.

• A waistcoat is optional but highly esteemed.

Shirts & Neckwear

• Crisp, collared dress shirts in white or subdued tones.

• Neckwear is required: tie, cravat, or ascot.

• Bow ties may be worn if understated.

Footwear

• Polished leather shoes, Oxfords, brogues, or Edwardian-style boots.

• No trainers, open-toed shoes, or casual loafers.

Accessories & Grooming

• Pocket squares, signet rings, subtle cufflinks, and tasteful timepieces are fitting accents.

• Grooming should be immaculate; facial hair neatly trimmed.

 

Items Not Permitted for Any Guest

• Sportswear or gym attire

• Denim of any kind

• Graphic prints or slogan apparel

• Baseball caps or casual hats

• Oversized handbags or backpacks

• Distressed or torn clothing

• Excessively revealing attire

 

Final Note of Courtesy

Aristocratic Tea at Smithmore Castle is a celebration of gentility, poise, and the timeless elegance of Britain’s noble houses. We thank you most sincerely for honouring this tradition with appropriate dress and impeccable comportment.